By Lori Marie
The key to thriving spiritually, emotionally, and physically lies in understanding what is—and isn't—our responsibility. This begins with releasing the roles we've outgrown, those that don't serve our highest good.
In our collective youniverse, we often see love manifest as praising, selflessness, and endless giving, yet this makes it easy to lose sight of our own energy and needs. Boundaries are not walls we build to shut others out; they are bridges we create to connect with ourselves in a deeper, healthier way. They allow us to nurture our authenticity, align with our higher self, and maintain peace in relationships—both with others and with ourselves.
The first step in setting boundaries for self-love is accepting that it's not your job to relieve others of pain or heal them. While our hearts may yearn to help, and many of us do so through our unique gifts and talents, healing is ultimately an inside job for every individual. When we take on someone else's healing as our responsibility, we not only risk depleting our own energy but also rob them of their growth journey.
True relationships are built on mutual respect, not self-sacrifice. People-pleasing, though well-intentioned, leads to resentment and disconnection from our authentic selves. It's not your job to make things work when the effort isn't mutual. Relationships thrive on balance—when you find yourself shouldering the weight alone, it's okay to step back. Love and harmony flourish best with equal contribution. Compromise should never become one-sided; when it does, it's time to pause and re-center, honoring your voice in the process.
Tiptoeing around others serves neither party. You are not responsible for how someone else reacts to your truth. Walking on eggshells only stifles energy and dims your inner light. Similarly, you're not responsible for anticipating or taking on someone else's needs. While intuition is beautiful, assuming responsibility for others' happiness leads to burnout. Let others speak their truth while honoring your own.
Changing yourself to please others only delays the joy of being seen and loved for who you truly are. Authenticity is magnetic.
Make setting boundaries normal. When you create and honor them, you send a clear message to the youniverse: "I am worthy of love, respect, and peace." This shift doesn't just change how others treat you; it changes how you show up for yourself. It strengthens your connection with Source, allowing you to co-create a reality that reflects your highest truth.
Remember, boundaries aren't about rejection—they're about redirection. They guide your energy back to where it belongs: with your growth, your joy, and your purpose.
How can you honor yourself today by saying "no" to what no longer serves and "yes" to what feels aligned?
About Lori Marie: With over 30 years of experience in astrology, soul guidance, energy healing, and spiritual coaching, Lori Marie has dedicated their life to helping others navigate the complexities of the youniverse. As a compassionate and intuitive soul guide, they have empowered countless individuals on their path to self-realization and higher consciousness. Known for their profound insights and gentle approach, Lori Marie offers a unique blend of ancient wisdom and modern understanding to support those seeking deeper connections and transformative growth. To book a time with Lori Marie go to Divine24.og or email her at whtsursgn@gmail.com
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